ex gay christians are so corny and are just gaslighting themselves into thinking they're not gay

but i also think them being bigots is frankly a skill issue. like if i discovered i am hetero later in life it would not change the fact i am willing to dive headfirst to punch queerphobe ass. like, oh no, your empathy for queer people ends because you're not queer??? git gud bro. exercise your mirror neurons and intersectional solidarity. grow a bigger heart. get a hobby

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@vivi yeah i’ve gotten some like that before blgeghhhh

@vivi awww whatever it is, i think it’ll be okay mosslet 💜

@vivi what’s wrong little splootlet

For those of us with ADHD, if you are thinking about a task every second you’re not doing it and desperately want to do the task more than anything else and are devastated that you can’t do it so much that you use all your energy just on trying to make yourself do the thing that you want to do but can’t, that is NOT procrastination. That is executive dysfunction. It only seems like procrastination to people who have never experienced executive dysfunction and those who have only ever experienced executive dysfunction.

Procrastination is when you fully have the ability to do something and choose not to do it but to do the thing you prefer doing instead. I hadn’t experienced this until very recently, after a lot of therapy and medication.

ユキヒョウのリィン❄

@freeplay

this was prompted by a coworker asking my pronouns because he was confused at others referring to me as they/them and she/her. i told him that technically both of those are acceptable pronouns, “they/them” is only available to people who get my pronouns first hand by asking me. she/her is the only thing everyone else has available because second hand stuff always has limited options

“what are your preferred pronouns?”

my pronouns are it/its, she/her, they/them, ze/zir but my preferred pronouns are whichever of those makes you most uncomfortable

fedi foxes trying to wake up

@rowan ouhhh creaturely awaauu..... aa , ,,the the fluffy

@rowan what a fascinating yet quietly terrifying being :neofox_pleading_256;

@foxysen

@vivi コンコン！

@vivi has it been sitting in the bottle for a while? plastic leeching is blehhghhhhmgkbgjhiodgd

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some others can keep a steady job? wild, i struggle to keep a steady sense of self