I learned that if someone says "Well we've stopped you because someone said it looks like a bomb" responding with "How could it be a bomb it doesn't even have a payload?" indignantly is NOT what you should do.
It's better to say "Oh wow I didn't think of that. It's really just a timer with old style of display. Let me turn it off."
@kasdeya the whole thing is painful. I've alleviated it a little with wishlists, which I give to the Christmas lovers in my life. I also make it very clear that anything not on the list is unwanted and will be returned, and the list makes clear whether substitutes are acceptable. But all that extra work to make the list, communicate clearly, set boundaries, and also regularly find things I want and could buy, and then not buy them and put them on a list where I might not get them, just to make a shitty holiday not pleastant, but bearable, is a great example of how awful the Christmas experience is on a fundamental level. Not to mention that these alleviation steps aren't even universally accessible for executive function and social conflict reasons.
@Valdus you make a really good point that all software is a machine inside of other machines
after thinking about this more, I think my biggest problem with Unity is just how intricately interconnected everything is because of the component system - and how those connections arenāt really documented in a clear way. itās designed that way to allow tons of code reuse, but it feels like a whole bunch of spaghetti to me lol
and it also feels like thereās no way for me to identify a well-defined problem, and then unambiguously solve it. it feels like Unity is more about doing things based on vibes and I donāt like that at all
and Iām wondering if maybe all game dev will feel this way to me. or at least all game dev that isnāt something much simpler like a turn-based grid-based game, or a card game or something
I think Iām probably going to learn something else instead for now
@Shivaekul Iāve been thinking about what you said here - about how most stories are an emotional journey. I think that might be the main thing that causes problems for me with storytelling: the aspect of having my emotions changed by fiction. especially when I canāt predict what Iām going to feel (and often even reading a plot summary isnāt enough, because itās about how the story is told and not what happens in it)
I keep saying that Iām going to give up on storytelling, and then Iām drawn back in by something or other. I think I really should just stop engaging with it for now, and wait for my mental health and circumstances to improve before trying again. I donāt know what I need in order to be able to handle it, or what would help
anyway thank you for this message! it definitely gave me a lot to think about and I think I learned a little more about myself in the process
starting to think that the reason why OOPās solution to everything is ācreate a horrifying incestuous turducken of classesā is because OOP languages are missing any other piece of functionality that one might conceivably solve the problem with
when an SCP-6783-2-α instance encounters SCP-75412-4-μ, it will release SCP-6783-3-Ļ and SCP-6738-3-Īŗ which will encase the resulting SCP-6783-2-β in a SCP-8342-Ī::/apple/37 that triggers SCP-5245-6-24-Ī»-McDonalds-Ī· which creates SCP-5357-4-7 resulting in a class-7 Theaetetus event (designated SCP-69-420)
New Yearās resolutions donāt work, but hereās something that does (for some people, anyway):
Yearly Themes - An Alternative to New Yearās resolutions - CGP Grey
Of all the features designed for blind users that are present on mobile devices, virtual braille input is, by far, the most powerful one.
Typing on a virtual representation of a physical [insert your keyboard layout here] keyboard works okay when you can see the keys, but when you're blind and use a screen reader, you have to explore the keyboard by touch. There are ways of making that process a little faster, but it's clunky and error-prone at best. Virtual braille input offers input based on relative finger positions instead of absolute input of a single finger. If you know braille, you can type. Talkback for Android and Voiceover for iOS both have this, though I'm only familiar with the apple version.
When you're on the go, you don't always have room for a physical keyboard, and the one the phone offers is very slow. Activate virtual braille input, and you can type and edit way faster than with normal commands. Get practice with them, and you can come pretty close to parity with traditional touchscreen typing input. it addresses the biggest pain point in using a phone without vision. Most of the swiping and tapping is pretty straightforward, sans inaccessible apps, but typing was always clunky at best. This isn't a perfect solution, but it's a massive improvement.
#blind #voiceover #talkback #braille #BrailleScreenInput #accessibility
@arichtman ooh okay! Iāll probably give it a try with my bright yellow American mustard hehe. adding mustard actually never even occurred to me - Iām glad you mentioned it
@arichtman ooh Iāve never tried it with mustard! I do have mustard but itās yellow mustard - so Iām not sure if thatās what you mean (I know stuff is different between the US and UK)
important status update: I now have all ingredients necessary to make cheese and pickle sandwiches
(those being cheese, Branston pickle, and bread)
shes so cute!!!! look at her! you gotta flip her over!!
Sometime around the 2020 era, we lost the right to be mediocre at things we love.
No longer can you just bake bread...you must start a sourdough side hustle lol. Wanna stay fit and go jogging or running? Nah, you gotta optimize your biometrics for a marathon. What my point is that every hobby has been enshittified and gentrified into a brand opportunity.
This strange infatuation with optimization culture is killing the human spirit.
So this new year, starting tomorrow, one of my resolutions is to do something bad but fun. Maybe I write a terrible poem. I like to draw and paint, so perhaps I will draw a horse that looks like a table or sing off-key in the showers or in front of my loved ones. The algorithm driving the mainstream social media wants me to be a polished product, but my humanity lives in these messy, unoptimized, cringe-inducing joyful failures.
I will try to reclaim the right to be an amateur. Will you join me?
#creativity #hobbies #art #depression #socialmedia #newyear #resolution #happynewyear #MentalHealth #Culture #enshittification #creative #design #writing #reading #books #drawing #music #gardening #nature #running #fitness
lol both Instagram and TikTok have blocked me from creating or logging into an account because Iām using LibreWolf with a lot of the privacy settings turned up, and they canāt track me this way