@Paradox you ever think about how peppa pig always has two eyes no matter which side she’s facing so in reality if you looked her head on she’d have four eyes
Just realized "highbrow" and "lowbrow" is literally fossilized phrenology in english language

@stellarskylark woahh this is interesting
RE: https://solarpunk.moe/@stellarskylark/115476784866528480
@Aurin_the_classtraitor Matrix is way too complicated, it’s pretty buggy, and there are way too many technical choices that you have to make. like, what server do you use? what app do you use to talk to the server? etc. and then the server might get shut down soon after you join, which happened to me
I’d recommend Signal instead. it’s centralized (it only has one server instead of lots of federated servers) but it respects privacy, it seems secure and spying-resistant to me, and it’s really easy to set up and use. you start by setting it up on your phone, and then you can set it up on your computer(s) by using your phone to scan a QR code
I don’t think it has any equivalent of Discord servers though. just ways to DM people or maybe make a group chat. but! you can voice call and even stream your screen (no audio though :/)
Aurin (ki, ki, kis)
Tech people talk about tech too much.
I really really REALLY want to use all the awesome privacy friendly FOSS (and similar) stuff, but I am not a techie person! I don't know how to program, nor do I want to.
And every SINGLE time I try to find out even what thing (OS, program, app, service, etc) to use, let alone how, and I search for it... I get techie-focused answers.
It's complete gibberish to me! Absolutely useless. It makes me feel actively unwelcome even though I really care about using alternatives to Windows, Meta, X and other dystopic nonsense.
For example: I'm like "How do I start a non-enshittified group chat to talk about a thing?" and all the results are technobabble to me. I don't even know if the words they use are supposed to be normal english words or if they refer to orgs or groups or apps or some weird coding wizardry.
I am so lost, every single time.
I stick with it though. But like. I wonder if the tech people realise that this is happening???? Because they probably understand what they're talking about. And they seem to not realise that not everyone does.
I'm not trying to blame or shame anyone or even complaining as such (a little bit complaining, ngl), mostly just giving feedback. This is not an issue with a singe thing but with ALL of it as a whole! Including #GNU/#Linux the #Fediverse #Matrix and most #FOSS apps.
My sincere wish: Give non-techie people an EASY TO FIND and easy to read and easy to understand and easy to implement guide about how to use the things as an alternative to using big corporation services, ie, "I just want it to work" and not have to worry about the technical side of things. (examples in thread)
Dolls: counts as tool, has roughly the same durability as stone pickaxes.
Drones: stacks up to 64 in your inventory
Angels: stacks up to 108
Demons: Doesn't stack, consumes adjacent inventory items.
Moths: counts as a key item, can't be removed from the inventory bar once you have it there.
Witches: does not stack, but you can make a cube out of them at a crafting table.
@NovaSquirrel not to nerdsnipe you (absolutely to nerdsnipe you) but since I found out you can embed arbitrary data into .png's I've been obsessed with the idea of making, like, trading cards that have data that a game can read
So, maybe your game could spit out a .png trading card that looks like a screenshot of the location, and then folk could just drag-and-drop that pic onto the website and it could magic them straight to that location?
Like I think that'd be pretty neat
going to start writing troubleshooting checklists that start like
@kasdeya @iris_meredith Dan Luu looked into this and found that the evidence is decidedly more mixed: https://danluu.com/keyboard-v-mouse/
@eclairwolf woahh reaching the latest expansion in 3 hours is fucking wild omg. but also I forgot all about chromie time! I only just recently switched from a Pandaria private server to a Legion one lol so I’m just enjoying having level scaling at all lol. but chromie time seems like such a good idea ngl
i was told that my views on parenting would change when i got older and had kids of my own.
i dont have kids but they did change – i hate parents and nuclear families even more now and still think kids should have full control over their lives
apparently it takes the average WoW player less than a week to reach max level? and that’s without looking at guides
I didn’t think that I was playing WoW in a way that was particularly slow or inefficient but this really puts my playstyle into perspective to be honest. I sometimes play for 2-3 weeks at a time before quitting for a while again, and at no point have I ever reached max level. in fact the furthest I’ve gotten on any character is WotLK, and this was on a 3x XP private server
@rowan it also misdirected people away from the actually most dangerous people in a child’s life: family members and close family friends. imagine if the panic had been about that instead, and how many victims of abuse could have been saved if parents and neighbors were aware of what to look for and what to do if they suspect that a child is abused
the stranger danger panic of the 80s did irreparable harm to community trust and especially queer/minority communities in the us
That is understandable. Having an extra pronounced sense of justice and empathy for the victims of cruelty is difficult to reconcile with stories where that happens. I can try poking around for titles where it’s less of an issue just in case?
With video games, I don’t get as much time to play as I used to, but
@xYourEmoGFx might have some targeted suggestions for story games that are sensitive to injustice and cruelty (maybe?)
omg thank you for the offers! to be honest, there is probably a very small intersection between stories that I would be interested in, and stories that I wouldn’t find painful in that way. but if either of you want to give me suggestions then I could try them! it might be an interesting experiment
the things that specifically upset me are injustice, oppression, and abusive power dynamics. there’s more nuance to this but I’m not going to make y’all read the whole like 20-paragraph essay I wrote on it lol
but yeah I don’t know what I need in order to be less hurt by ficitonal injustice or cruelty. I wish I did
That’s one of those things that really only you can answer. Folks can offer up suggestions but I know testing suggestions also requires spoons and has inherent risk, and only you can decide when that is acceptable. I hope that over time it’s something that becomes less of a barrier 🫶🏽
thank you 💙 I hope so too. I guess I just need to experiment and figure out what I need. I definitely think part of it, though, will be feeling like I’m empowered to address the injustice in my own life and in my friends’ lives. once I’ve got that I think fictional injustice will bother me a lot less
Informed consent is very important. With some types hypnosis, there is going to often be a layer of deception involved, those cannot be studied in an ethical way.
oof yeah that definitely makes sense. there’s definitely a lot of “saying things that aren’t true so that they become true” in hypnosis - especially during the pre-talk. I think that that can be done in a way that isn’t actually deceptive, but more like going through the motions of deception, but that in itself is can be very messy and I’m still trying to figure out where I stand on the deceptive aspects of hypnosis
If hypnosis is used for treatment, it is considered unethical to deprive the control group of the treatment of they don’t have access to equivalent options.
ohh wow, interesting. in that case, how is it possible to test an experimental cure for a disease that hasn’t been cured yet? or I guess in that case, your “control group” would be the publicly-available statistics on how the disease usually progresses?
Limiting harm is an ethical perogative, and that is not feasible with large study groups in a model of hypnosis that might work. Even a success case has an elevated risk of harm and it may not be ethical to proceed in that fashion.
hm that’s interesting too. what kind of harm are you talking about? I think I might roughly know what you mean but I’m not 100% sure, since the therapeutic uses for hypnosis aren’t something that I know much about at all
As an aside, the most useful studies on influencing human behavior will be in papers that don’t mention hypnosis at all.
ohh, interesting. that definitely makes sense. has the placebo effect been studied much? because I think that that is more-or-less what hypnosis is. also when you say “human behavior” I assume you’re talking about both overt and covert behavior right? (as in, it also includes thoughts, emotions, etc.)