@vivi honestly, to back this up, when i moderated [redacted server], there were two admins + me. the first admin had a moderation style very much like me and the community was good, welcoming, and friendly. we tolerated zero bullshit from players. we were very very protective of everyone who invested their time, and there was definitely a clear sense of trust between long-time players and the mods. new players were always on probation until we learned who you are

when that admin passed it on to his friend (the aforementioned second admin), that one was much more the “lets listen to what they have to say” type people. a lot of bad actors made it into the server and it was much harder to get rid of them. the community quickly felt like every other minecraft server – chat didn’t flood constantly from different conversations, new players weren’t welcomed, and everything was met with passive or even open hostility.

so yeah fuck that ill be the terrible mod

@vivi “very opinionated and on a hair trigger” has and always will be my moderation style

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@november i think thats a good perspective. most 30 and 40 year olds i know arent grown up or responsible either and i wouldnt take their freedom away

@rowan everyone is like “why are kids so isolated and unhappy” maybe it’s because they aren’t allowed to go outside

@mstar agree. parents have no rights because rights are an entitlement to protect you from oppressive power structures. parents are the power structure

also children shouldnt have “parents” in the sense of two dedicated individuals looking after them – they should have a community so that they’re not fully dependent on just a few people

i did raise my siblings for most of my teenage years and early 20s though and it was pivotal in my advocacy for youth liberation. maybe its because i loved them and didnt want to own them like property

i was told that my views on parenting would change when i got older and had kids of my own.

i dont have kids but they did change – i hate parents and nuclear families even more now and still think kids should have full control over their lives

parents shouldnt have the ability to take away a child’s autonomy. no one should

youth liberation now btw

the stranger danger panic of the 80s did irreparable harm to community trust and especially queer/minority communities in the us

@eclairwolf yeah you are

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