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641I try to be very careful about CWing things. sometimes I make mistakes but I want to make my posts as safe to read as possible
I sometimes post NSFW/kinky/lewd things behind CWs. this should go without saying but if you're a minor please do not interact with anything lewd/NSFW that I post
I have very limited energy and am very shy so it might take me a long time to reply to messages sometimes, or I might not be able to reply at all. this is kind of an "output only" account for the most part, but I'm hopeful that I can change that over time
I sometimes use curly braces to {clearly show where a grammatical phrase begins and ends}, like that. you can think of them like parenthesis in code or math, except they operate on grammar instead
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@emberquill yess omg this is exactly what I’m talking about! labeling you as “lazy” is just a convenient way for people to wash their hands of supporting you or figuring out what’s wrong and I hate it. this is a really good example
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kasdeyathe word “lazy” is used to victim-blame and suspend empathy for others. it’s a thought-terminating cliche. “why do people act like this? it’s because they’re lazy. it’s their fault and they are low-value because of it”
whenever I see the word “lazy” I try to remind myself to step back from the situation, have compassion for the people being labeled, and ask myself “what is actually the problem? is this a learned behavior? is this a neurotype thing? is this a product of hidden societal forces? does it come from trauma? how can others help them?”
nobody is simply “lazy”. it is always more complicated than that
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kasdeyahappy International Men’s Day to all of the trans men and transmascs on Fedi!
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kasdeya@dregntael aw hehe - to be honest I feel like it’s okay for there to be a few languages that just get really nerdy and mathy. it’s frustrating for me as someone who was taught by school to hate math, but I bet for those who know a lot about advanced math it’s actually really comfy to have such a specific and concrete vocabulary to describe things
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kasdeya@dregntael ooh omg I forgot about Racket! I might give it a try too tbh. there are so many Lisps to choose from
it sounds like Racket is built on top of Scheme, so what I might do is learn Scheme first and if I like it enough then learn Racket next
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@pharmafemboy hehehehe~! I’m ngl I was thinking of you specifically as I wrote this 😈
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for example instead of saying “all your feelings are okay with me”, say “aww babyy! you’re a good girl no matter what you feel. your feelings are always okay 💙”
instead of saying “you can make mistakes - they are your teachers” say “good girl! I’m glad you made this mistake, and felt comfortable telling me. what did you learn from it? [wait for them to reply] that’s right! the fact that you made that mistake and acknowledged it means you’re doing really well. I want you to keep trying hard things and making mistakes for me - okay~? 💙 that’s how you get even better for me”
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how to enslave a trans girl:
- google “reparenting affirmations”
- say them to her, but make them sound kinky and dominant
- bonus: use the phrase “good girl” as often as possible
that’s it. she’ll be begging you to collar her in no time
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@1 aww! that does sound like a great feature to have. Fennel had something similar and it confused me for a while but I was able to figure it out when working on my own Lisp language
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@liese adding git info to my prompt does actually sound pretty nice - I might add that too eventually. but yeah I love that it comes with really nice defaults out-of-the-box and I don’t have to see any confusing arcane script stuff inside of my config file either
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kasdeyathey should make a version of the Haskell docs that you can read without a degree in abstract algebra
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cassie cane 🎄
aronia@tech.lgbt@kasdeya consider The Storygraph, they have a feature to filter out reccos based on content
https://roadmap.thestorygraph.com/changelog/disliked-topics-and-content-types-in-recommendations
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