In my discussion about Devon’s piece on transmisandry I did specifically talk about trans fems. Due to the piece and due to the fact that it was thrown at me by a trans fem. If you read all the way through, you will see I did not mean to rag on trans fems, cis women do it too but trans fems are supposed to be our siblings in this not making us their enemies. They should know better.

@Melezioh yeah that's the sad part. Being trans don't automatically make one "know better" just like being female doesn't automatically make one a feminist.

@joandaro never been able to understand women that aren’t feminists. Met plenty of them, makes no sense.

@Melezioh well because nobody's born feminist, we're all taught "you shouldn't be treated like this" at some point of life
And if that happens too late in your life then embracing the idea means denying all your life before that

@Melezioh sunk cost. If that sunk cost involved getting married by her parents' will and raising a couple children she would never wanted otherwise etc then for some it's just… lost cause. Can't blame anyone. At least I can't.

@joandaro nah. Nah that does make sense. Can’t blame them, do feel bad for them though.

@Melezioh yeah. Heartbreaking and sad and that happens too often.