My brother is being very stupid, and I can't do anything about it. Very annoying. I can't fix his life for him, and I've given up on trying, but that doesn't mean I like seeing him fuck things up for himself.

@Shivaekul I know this feeling and I hate it. there’s no way to help someone who doesn’t want to be helped, but it’s so hard watching those you care about ruin their lives in incredibly preventable ways

I hope your brother is able to learn and grow from his mistakes in time, at least, and is able to ask you for help and support when that happens