every time I encounter lewd art that doesn’t include D/s I get confused for a second and have to remind myself that some people don’t have a fetish for uneven power dynamics

me to a vanilla couple: so which of you needs permission to cum?

I can understand a lot of kinks (maybe reductively) through the lens of D/s but then I encounter something like dronification/hypno-recruitment and I’m like “… wait but… everybody is the dom but they’re also subs…?” it’s very foreign to me

@kasdeya I kind of feel like in a lot of drone stuff, the dom is more of an idea than a character present in the scenario. It is still functionally D/s, but the thing doing the domination is the concept of dronification itself, if that makes sense.

@kasdeya see this is how fucked i am i forgot until now that that isn’t a completely normal thing to everyone im so fucked

• carrie

@Owlor that is a really interesting framing to be honest. I might have to think about that a bit